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The Quiet Grip of Religious Shame: Does It Still Have a Hold on You?

You’re trying to enjoy a simple moment—a break at work, a lazy Sunday morning, or even a laugh with friends. But there’s this lingering feeling, a quiet voice in the back of your mind that whispers, “Are you sure this is okay? Shouldn’t you be doing more, being better?” It’s subtle, but it’s there. And it […]

Have You Ever Been Told You Have to Choose Between Your Faith and Who You Truly Are? 🌈

For countless LGBTQIA+ individuals, religion isn’t just a source of spiritual guidance—it can also be a profound source of pain. When faith communities preach condemnation, enforce exclusion, or demand conformity to rigid gender and sexual norms, they often cultivate environments of guilt, rejection, and fear. Many of us are taught from a young age that […]

To Be Queer Is to Affirm Yourself: My Journey with Queer-Affirming Therapy and Gay Men’s Community

I’ve always said that to be queer is to hold a mirror to yourself and embrace every reflection—flaws, strengths, desires, and all. It’s a radical act of self-love, and it requires real work. This deeply personal journey of acceptance and joy is why I’m thrilled to be a guest on this podcast, talking about topics […]

Growing in a Queer Household: Navigating the Christian Rejection Around Us

I didn’t grow up hiding who I was. I had the immense privilege of being raised in a queer household—a space where love and acceptance were the norm, where being yourself was celebrated. But even in that safety, we couldn’t escape the harsh realities of the world outside. We were surrounded by Christian communities that […]

Why Therapists Must Get Trained on Ethical Non-Monogamy—Before They Harm Clients

Wake Up, Therapists! The World of Relationships Has Changed. We can’t ignore it anymore. Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) isn’t some niche, fringe movement. It’s everywhere. As therapists, we’re already failing by not being prepared for clients who come to us for help with these relationship structures. Whether it’s polyamory, swinging, or relationship anarchy—these are real, valid […]

Why Therapist Training on Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM) is Crucial: Insights from Thought Leaders and Research

In an evolving society where diverse relationship structures are increasingly embraced, consensual non-monogamy (CNM) and polyamory are gaining recognition. However, despite this growing visibility, mental health professionals often find themselves unprepared to address the unique needs and challenges associated with these relationship dynamics. As highlighted in recent research, including a Psychology Today article by Dr. Heath Schechinger, […]

“TickTock Torched”: A Reflection on Self-Diagnosis, Privilege, and the Broken Mental Health System

Recently, I found myself unexpectedly thrust into a heated debate on TikTok after sharing my concerns about self-diagnosis in mental health. In just 30 seconds, I went from sharing what I believed to be a thoughtful perspective to being "TickTock torched" by countless people who assumed a lot about me from that brief clip.

Why I Became a Mental Health Therapist: A Journey Through Christianity, Personal Experience, and Advocacy

As a mental health therapist, my work is deeply intertwined with my personal journey—one shaped by a complex relationship with Christianity, lived experiences, and a profound commitment to advocacy.

The Importance of Self-Awareness in Navigating Ethical Non-Monogamy

Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) encompasses a variety of relationship structures that involve consensual, honest, and respectful engagement in multiple romantic or sexual relationships. As a mental health professional, understanding and facilitating self-awareness in clients practicing ENM is crucial for their well-being and relationship satisfaction. According to a 2017 study by

Breaking Chains: Empowering Female Sexuality in Christian Narratives

Introduction: Reclaiming Female Sexual Autonomy in Christianity Female sexual autonomy within Christianity is a deeply personal topic for me. My experiences with conservative Christian ideologies have driven my passion for exploring and challenging traditional narratives surrounding female sexuality. This exploration is a critical part of my upcoming book, “Her Own Terms: Navigating the Landscape of […]

Understanding Ethical Non-Monogamy: Essential Training for Therapists

As therapists, it’s crucial to be well-versed in various relationship structures to provide inclusive and effective care. One such structure is ethical non-monogamy (ENM), which allows individuals to engage in multiple romantic or sexual relationships with the consent of all parties involved. Some people refer to this as alternative relationships, consensual non-monogamy, or simply non-monogamy. […]

The Importance of Female Sexual Empowerment Groups

Introduction In today’s world, the conversation around female sexuality is evolving, yet many women still struggle with myths, societal expectations, and personal boundaries. This is why I have been facilitating a Female Sexual Empowerment Group. It is designed to address these challenges, providing a safe, supportive environment where women can explore and embrace their sexuality. […]

10 Essential Skills for Mental Health Professionals: Cultural Competence and Sensitivity

In today's diverse world, cultural competence and sensitivity are crucial for mental health professionals. Learn how to support clients from various backgrounds effectively and enhance your skills with specialized CEU courses in sexuality and religion.

My Journey Through “Her Own Terms”

"In 'Her Own Terms,' I embark on a personal journey to dismantle restrictive narratives around female sexuality. Join me as I explore the interplay of faith and freedom, advocating for a world where female desire is celebrated as a sacred part of our humanity."

Embracing Diversity: My Approach as a Sex-Positive Therapist

As a sex-positive therapist, I explore the spectrum of sexual identities and expressions, advocating for authenticity and inclusivity in both personal relationships and professional settings. Discover how embracing diversity in sexual preferences can enrich our lives and communities.

Exploring Spirituality and Sexuality in “Something for Everybody” Podcast

In an enlightening episode of the "Something for Everybody" podcast, we delve into sexuality, spirituality, and personal identity with Aaron, offering insights into how embracing diverse experiences enhances community understanding.

Embrace Diversity: A Wake-Up Call for Therapists

Introduction My message today is a blend of challenge and invitation: adapt your practice to serve Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) and queer populations effectively, or risk losing relevance. This shift is not about passing judgment but fostering growth and responding to urgent change. Ignoring these shifts is not merely a disservice but a significant professional oversight. […]

Understanding the Unique Experiences of Queer Couples

Queer couples navigate a world that is often structured without consideration for their needs and experiences. Did you know that according to the National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs, queer individuals face a higher rate of hate violence compared to their heterosexual counterparts? Or that, as reported by the Human Rights Campaign, 46% of queer workers […]

The Polyamory Paradox: A Therapist’s Journey

As a therapist with a unique upbringing in a household of non-traditional relationships, I’ve always been fascinated by the intricacies of human connection, particularly in the realm of consensual non-monogamy (CNM) and polyamory. While society often perpetuates a narrow view of relationships, I’ve witnessed firsthand the beauty, complexity, and resilience of CNM dynamics. Growing up, […]

The Intersection of Faith and Sexuality: Focusing on Female Sexuality and Shame

This is a topic close to my heart, both as a mental health advocate, a theologian and someone who has personally navigated the complexities of integrating spirituality with sexual identity. The journey of reconciling these aspects of our lives can be challenging, filled with questions, doubts, and often a sense of isolation. Yet, it’s also […]

Resilience and Authentic Connections: Navigating Relational Success in Life and Leadership

My grandfather and at the Abraham House hospice in Utica, NY a few weeks prior to his passing. Relational success, acting as my compass in both personal and professional realms, weaves a tapestry of connections—from the warmth of family bonds to the nuanced dance between employer and employee. This guiding principle stood out prominently during […]

Queer Women and Mental Health: Insights, Challenges, and Solutions for Wellbeing

The mental wellbeing of queer women is a topic that resonates deeply with me, both personally and professionally. As we delve into the complex fabric of their experiences, it’s crucial to not only rely on statistics but to also share stories that bring these numbers to life. The National LGBT Health Education Center reveals a […]

Nurturing Growth: The Inclusive Journey of AMR Therapy

AMR Therapy: Working to Create a Safe Space AMR Therapy pushes the conventional bounds of an online psychotherapy business, created for individuals exploring their identities, navigating the complexities of religion and queerness, or finding their way through non-monogamous relationships. Yet, our mission extends beyond these specific dimensions. It stands as a haven for anyone wishing […]

Navigating the Language of Love: An In-Depth Exploration of “Alternative Relationships”

As I delve into the complexities of “alternative relationships” within my practice and discussions with peers, especially within the queer therapy community, I find myself at the intersection of language, identity, and societal norms. The term “alternative relationships,” encompassing non-monogamous, polyamorous, open, and other non-traditional relationship structures, has sparked extensive debate and reflection. Drawing on […]

Navigating the Landscape of Ethical Non-Monogamy: Discover, Discuss, and Grow Together

Group will be led by therapist, Briana Monroe In an era where the traditional contours of relationships are increasingly being reimagined, Non-Monogamy emerges as a pivotal conversation. It’s more than a trend; it’s a reflection of the diverse ways individuals seek connection, love, and fulfillment. As curiosity and adoption of non-monogamous relationships grow, so does […]